Sunday, 13 October 2013

Does Love and Positive Attitude Brings Success?

Does Love and positive attitude brings success?

Very sensitive question to many, as great majority of people do not believe in positive aspect of our life, being mislead and misinformed throughout our lives we are unable to differentiate between the benefits of positive and loving approach to others and the negativity of hate and disrespect toward others.

From early stage of our life we are constantly fed with negativity, hate and luck of respect toward our close ones, friends and other people. Envy, jealousy and criticism are the leading topics in our everyday life. The best selling news is bad news. This is how the media and "other" sources of information strive to ensure that there is no peace, no love nor understanding, by promoting all the negative aspects of events.

Every first page of daily papers , be it a tabloid or main stream, is filled with negativity. The power of suggestion input in to every picture, every article is filled with implementation of fear in people. The idea is that if people are afraid, they are more fragile , thus easy to manipulate.Television programmes are no different. The implementation  of fear is the ultimate goal as the forces are able to do their own dirty and dark actions in order to achieve their goals.

How to free our selves from the power of manipulation?  

The use of our thoughts is the vital power of staying out of the feeling of fear, resentment and hate. Changing the way we function and think is the key to our happiness and a better future. Back in 2004, Rhonda Byrne has created the film called "Secret" , and later a book. Later she wrote a book entitled, "The Power" . Both are very simple yet very effective products helping to get people away from manipulation by media and fear.

Positive attitude and and expression of love toward our selves and others, is the answer to the negativity and misfortune in our lives. Just compare, your next door the people, who terrorise their neighbours, families and work mates. Just look at the suffering that is around us in every town, city, country. Why are you not doing anything about this? It is fear that stops us from doing this. Just like Mahlala, is brave and able to give love to the people of Afghanistan and the world, we can do so too. Mahlala survived her injury, not because she was just lucky, but because she was destined to live and work towards the freedom of millions of women in the world, to young children, to show them the "light", the opportunity that they have every right to experience. Her bravery, her determination and her problems, have made her much stronger, and having been filled with nothing but love to her self and to others, she draw the strength and determination to lead the fight for her and others.

This bring some reflection to my thoughts. I too, nearly took my own life, because of other peoples hate and determination to destroy my dreams of helping others to be happier and have better life. God had his plans for me and ensured that I will do other things in life. Since that incident, I learned that there is no other way for us to chose. We all must chose love and respect, positive thinking and movement towards peace and unity of all. This is the only way. We must give love in order to receive what ever we desire.

Be and feel the citizen of the world. Know that when you help other human beings, and see the results , create an unbelievable feeling of satisfaction. And then reap the rewards that you may have never imagined.

Maria Kompanowski  

Wednesday, 25 September 2013

Key Factors When Achieving Wealth

At some point in our life we all wish to be wealthy. Being wealthy is my personal goal and I wish that everyone else will also become wealthy. Being rich is not just the money factor. I strongly believe that being wealthy is predominantly the mindset, then thousands of small,highly  important factors.

These key factors to achieving wealth are well worth exploring. 

1. Social Skills
Being easy going, getting along with people. Being humble and understanding is one of the major skills that one need to aquire. These will help to become a strong leader and help to build up the leadership qualities in us.
Building your success requires the ability to sell your ideas and your products. Without ideas, and products we will have to work much, much harder.
Each of the factors is very tight to each other, just like the components in a watch. It all has to click together in one precise system of action.
In the last few years more and more business people use mentors and coaches to help them in the personal and business development. All successful people know that it is very though world and we are no longer able to achieve all we want on our own. We require a team of people round us, a support team you might call it. A supportive life partner (Husband or wife), Business mentor, friends and family, as well as circle of well maintained contacts.
Your coach or mentor will usually be experienced in business and already successful in life. These people will have a fresh and  independent look at the business you are in and will be able to be much more assertive .
2. Be able to take constructive criticism.
Negative people will do all to take you off the truck, so you need to be able to learn how to deal and how to ignore criticism from jealous people. This requires competitive spirit or personality, to help in dealing with negativism.
You require to have urge in being respected by people, and posses extraordinary energy to work and exercise. It is important to keep fit physically, as the mind is more receptive when we are fit.
3. Integrity and moral values
Honesty with all people will take you much further than anything else. Along with a supportive spouse and strong religious faith.
4. Creativity
Being able to see opportunities that others don`t see. Search and find a profitable niche to benefit from. become a specialist in your field. And most of all, love what you do in work or business.
5. Investing
Learn how to invest wisely, not silly. Thus chose your investment advisors carefully, and take a risk if you are given the right return. At times it is better to live below your means rather than be extravagant.
6. Luck V Discipline
You can be lucky, however, discipline at all times is a virtue. With it, you need to be very organised and work harder than most people.
7. Intellectual Orientation
One does not require to have high score IQ to become wealthy.
I hope these point are going to be of use to many. I am certainly learning from this.

Food for thought.:

 “The boy who is going to make a great man must not make up his mind merely to overcome a thousand obstacles, but to win in spite of a thousand repulses and defeats.”

― Theodore Roosevelt

To Your success


Maria Kompanowski