Does Love and Positive Attitude Brings Success?

Does Love and positive attitude brings success?

Very sensitive question to many, as great majority of people do not believe in positive aspect of our life, being mislead and misinformed throughout our lives we are unable to differentiate between the benefits of positive and loving approach to others and the negativity of hate and disrespect toward others.

From early stage of our life we are constantly fed with negativity, hate and luck of respect toward our close ones, friends and other people. Envy, jealousy and criticism are the leading topics in our everyday life. The best selling news is bad news. This is how the media and "other" sources of information strive to ensure that there is no peace, no love nor understanding, by promoting all the negative aspects of events.

Every first page of daily papers , be it a tabloid or main stream, is filled with negativity. The power of suggestion input in to every picture, every article is filled with implementation of fear in people. The idea is that if people are afraid, they are more fragile , thus easy to manipulate.Television programmes are no different. The implementation  of fear is the ultimate goal as the forces are able to do their own dirty and dark actions in order to achieve their goals.

How to free our selves from the power of manipulation?  

The use of our thoughts is the vital power of staying out of the feeling of fear, resentment and hate. Changing the way we function and think is the key to our happiness and a better future. Back in 2004, Rhonda Byrne has created the film called "Secret" , and later a book. Later she wrote a book entitled, "The Power" . Both are very simple yet very effective products helping to get people away from manipulation by media and fear.

Positive attitude and and expression of love toward our selves and others, is the answer to the negativity and misfortune in our lives. Just compare, your next door the people, who terrorise their neighbours, families and work mates. Just look at the suffering that is around us in every town, city, country. Why are you not doing anything about this? It is fear that stops us from doing this. Just like Mahlala, is brave and able to give love to the people of Afghanistan and the world, we can do so too. Mahlala survived her injury, not because she was just lucky, but because she was destined to live and work towards the freedom of millions of women in the world, to young children, to show them the "light", the opportunity that they have every right to experience. Her bravery, her determination and her problems, have made her much stronger, and having been filled with nothing but love to her self and to others, she draw the strength and determination to lead the fight for her and others.

This bring some reflection to my thoughts. I too, nearly took my own life, because of other peoples hate and determination to destroy my dreams of helping others to be happier and have better life. God had his plans for me and ensured that I will do other things in life. Since that incident, I learned that there is no other way for us to chose. We all must chose love and respect, positive thinking and movement towards peace and unity of all. This is the only way. We must give love in order to receive what ever we desire.

Be and feel the citizen of the world. Know that when you help other human beings, and see the results , create an unbelievable feeling of satisfaction. And then reap the rewards that you may have never imagined.

Maria Kompanowski  

Key Factors When Achieving Wealth

At some point in our life we all wish to be wealthy. Being wealthy is my personal goal and I wish that everyone else will also become wealthy. Being rich is not just the money factor. I strongly believe that being wealthy is predominantly the mindset, then thousands of small,highly  important factors.

These key factors to achieving wealth are well worth exploring. 

1. Social Skills

Being easy going, getting along with people. Being humble and understanding is one of the major skills that one need to aquire. These will help to become a strong leader and help to build up the leadership qualities in us.

Building your success requires the ability to sell your ideas and your products. Without ideas, and products we will have to work much, much harder.

Each of the factors is very tight to each other, just like the components in a watch. It all has to click together in one precise system of action.

In the last few years more and more business people use mentors and coaches to help them in the personal and business development. All successful people know that it is very though world and we are no longer able to achieve all we want on our own. We require a team of people round us, a support team you might call it. A supportive life partner (Husband or wife), Business mentor, friends and family, as well as circle of well maintained contacts.

Your coach or mentor will usually be experienced in business and already successful in life. These people will have a fresh and  independent look at the business you are in and will be able to be much more assertive .

2. Be able to take constructive criticism.

Negative people will do all to take you off the truck, so you need to be able to learn how to deal and how to ignore criticism from jealous people. This requires competitive spirit or personality, to help in dealing with negativism.

You require to have urge in being respected by people, and posses extraordinary energy to work and exercise. It is important to keep fit physically, as the mind is more receptive when we are fit.

3. Integrity and moral values

Honesty with all people will take you much further than anything else. Along with a supportive spouse and strong religious faith.

4. Creativity

Being able to see opportunities that others don`t see. Search and find a profitable niche to benefit from. become a specialist in your field. And most of all, love what you do in work or business.

5. Investing

Learn how to invest wisely, not silly. Thus chose your investment advisors carefully, and take a risk if you are given the right return. At times it is better to live below your means rather than be extravagant.

6. Luck V Discipline

You can be lucky, however, discipline at all times is a virtue. With it, you need to be very organised and work harder than most people.

7. Intellectual Orientation

One does not require to have high score IQ to become wealthy.

I hope these point are going to be of use to many. I am certainly learning from this.

Food for thought.:

 “The boy who is going to make a great man must not make up his mind merely to overcome a thousand obstacles, but to win in spite of a thousand repulses and defeats.”

― Theodore Roosevelt

To Your success

Maria Kompanowski

Crisis? How to Overcome it?

Is this how you feel? Are you struggling with the current relationship? Is your business taking away your sleep? Are you unable to communicate with your children? Do you feel that things are just not going your way?

Many of us tend to bite fingers, panic, specially when hearing outside information on the bad economic situation, perhaps  fear the loss of a job, or business. The stress and panic create havoc. In this state of mind, nothing is simple, and clear. In fact everything one tries to do seems to be a failure.

It is when things seems the hardest that we must stay calm, relaxed and clear headed. Otherwise we will make too many mistakes, that may not be easy to correct once our head becomes clear again.

The stress becomes very intense close to Christmas, as we all want to make this Holiday so special for everyone round us. Often having limited financial resources we are hiding our head in the sand, only to purchase all those presents, so that we are not going to show our closest that we cannot really afford to do so. The fear factor is extremely powerful and can take our life over . In this current climate, more and more families are really struggling because they are afraid to admit that to their relatives and friends , and more so, to them selves that they are living above their means. Putting them selves into deep , deep hole, from which they may not be able to get out.

Yes , it is difficult, yet it is embarrassing, and yes, you stand to lose some of the people you are in close relation with, but hey! This is life and this is YOU!!! THERE IS NO ONE MORE IMPORTANT IN YOUR LIFE THAN YOUR SELF!! Yes, I can hear you screaming at me..... WHHHHAAAAAATT????
Yes, it is true. And yes, there are other people just as important as you: your partner, children, family, friends and so on. But, let`s look at this from a different prospective. Why it is that YOU are the most important person in your life.
Let us look at this from the Universal prospective, the Law of Attraction prospective and the nature. If you look deeper in to this, you will agree with what we are about to say. The best way , it will be to answer some questions for your selves. Such us:

1. Can I truly love someone if I do not love my self?
2. What about respect? Can I respect others without first giving respect to me?
3. Am I truthful to others if I cheat on my self?
4. Am I honest with my self if I lie to others?

We can go on and on asking these questions, and every time we give an answer, it will be , NO.

Today, many businesses are struggling for all the same reasons. Business owners get in to panic, and do all the wrong things. They are frightened to tell their partners that their life is not going to be on the same level as it was up to now. Perhaps , under the pressure they take up activities that they have never done before. Like coming home later than normally, drinking more than up to now. Becoming more stressed, nervous, they snap at partners, children and other people. The fear in side stops them thinking rationally and send them acting like never before. Why are we so afraid to tell people about our problems in business? It is because we are worried that we lose clients, or may be a referral source . But most commonly we are scared of having a row at home, particularly if our partner is not so understanding. What ever it is, we should NOT hide anything. When we are open, and honest with our selves, we will be same with others. And being so, we will always get help from people , more than we can imagine. Juts an quick example, taken from my own experience.

Back in 2006 I was a co owner of a quite successful business, that was my creation from start. My Business partner was only interested in the money we generated from the business. One day my business partner with the aid of her boyfriend took over our office ( it is a very long story, a material for a top Hollywood movie),denying me access to anything and everything bar the staff. Only my quick reaction and honesty with the clients has given me the way ahead. I was left with nothing, including no money. But I had my hard earned reputation with our clients , staff and eventually, in spite of a very big effort on the side of my former partner , all of the client base . In fact only thanks to all the staff and to each and every client I managed to retain the business and making it better and bigger.One of our clients had provided me with IT equipment, all customers were paying immediately so that I could sustain the cash flow and pay the staff. Would I be able to do it without honesty and openness? NO!

This was not enough though, to sustain the composure and clear head. As I was going through intimidation, various attacks on my person, and through a civil litigation that I had to lead by my self as I could not afford the rates of the legal profession. Fortunately I had been honest, so because of that I had all of the Judges on my side also. But it was then, through the toughest times, when I really needed a moral support from someone who knew what it is and how to handle me. I was given a contact to a Psychotronic Healer. A person who is now my best friend, had given me a life line support over the telephone for over 12 months, helping me not to go mad. Today, we help people in need through unconventional means. I also help people to grow business, using my experience in the field, but also the spiritual knowledge. That helps tremendously.

If you have any issues with your relationship, business or family. Do not hide, as it will not take the issues away, it will only make them more difficult as time goes by. Do not be afraid to seek help.

This economic situation is not making things easier for anyone, particularly for business, but to stay on top of the water, we all need to pull together and support each other in what ever way it is. Together we are stronger and can achieve much more.

Maria Kompanwski      

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Helping others as a key to success

The statement in the title may seem rather strange to many. How can one become wealthy, helping others to succeed? This is a statement given by many wealthy people, who have achieved their success through helping others to reach their goals.

I have a number of wealthy people that I look up to, when thinking of success. These are: Richard Branso, Doanld Trump, Joe Vitale, Robert Kyosaki, Zig Ziglar, Steven Covey and Less know Angela & Derek Coldwell, all have a history of being helpful to many other successful people. Today, I will mostly be refrring to Robert Kyosaki as it is a topic of networking that I wish to discuss with you, the readers.

We are all aware what networking is, are we? Well, just in case you are not sure. Networking is a relationship building , be it social or business, it is the same. Good , strong relashionships are the basics of activity in business today. Business of the 21st century is based on a good relashion building and development. In order to apply this to the business, most entrepreneurs are members of some kind of business organisation. For me, the best is BNI ( Business Network International), an organisation that joins business people together in order to grow their business through relation building and recommendation as well as training.

For others, business networking is a waist of time, because they do not understand it. Lets see how relashion building is affecting the growth of business in todays market economy. BNI has about 6000 chapters in 49 countries which relates to just over 300 000 people helping each other to grow their business. Each group can only have one representative of a category, thus no competition can take place within any group. In this system, each memebr is representing minmum 19 other companies, which gives him the advantage in several respects. Most importantly, each member has access to a large data base of potential clients, that means that at least 19 other members have on their contacts lists minimum 1000 contacts, so if we multiply these by 1000, it gives us a potential client base of 19000 clients. Imagine if the group is 70 strong, that gets you 70K of potential contacts.

Working together in a group , toward the same goal, gives us strength and a potential to sustain growth, receive recommendations and education. BNI has a strong member training record and success record. Similar success is asigned to Network marketing firms, or consumer sales what ever one likes to call it. Robert Kyosaki in his book : " The Business School For people Who Like Helping People", explains the real value of networking in business as well as value of helping others to chieve their goals. He rated the value of networking in a clear and understanding way, after being him self closed to it for over 15 years. Today, Robert Kyosaki and Donald Trump are one of the strongers promoters of networking in all of its forms, particularly multilevel marketing. He also explains the reasons behind why many successful business people have joined network marketing companies.

1. Life - Changing Business Education
     -  In it not purely for the money - Network marketing business is not only for the money, this is not the priority reason.
     - It is not for its products -  there are so many different products and services offered so far, and new coming up almost every day.
    - It is the Education Plan - Network Marketing business is first of all a good education system.This is a very powerful education that has empowered many people to do things they would never had done without finding out their true selves.They teach such things as: an attitude of success,Leadership skills, Communication skills,People skills,Overcoming personal fears, doubts,and lack of confidence,Dealing and overcoming with fear of rejection,Money management,Investing,Time management,Goal setting and much more.

2. The value of changing from the staus of an employee to a business owner then to an investor.
    In other words, changing ones life.
3. The value of living your dreams.
4. The real value of network.
5. How your values reflect your reality.
  - What is behind the core value?
6. The Value of Leadership.
  - emotions
  - empowering your self.
7. The future of networking.
 - The value of networking in the future in comparison to the current values.

The fact is that networking is here to stay and create our future more and more. Therefore we must embrase our selves to the fact that the traditional jobs will be scarse and most people will rely on some kind of networking in order to make their living. Network Marketing is the future in what ever shape or form. Here in BNI, we know that business networking is the future for business , and urge every business owner to be part of this network.

Maria Kompanowski


Further information on BNI: www.bni.eu,www.bnitrojmiasto.pl
We welcome your comments and questions. Will be happy to answer any queries .